Me vs. Me?—No, Me and Me. 💌

Hey Gardeners! We’ve made it to November! I hope you guys are gearing up for a beautiful holiday season. I ran across a post, and it got me thinking—what if I talked about making the shift? No more competition with the old me. No more “getting rid of the past me.” What if I embraced…

“Good Again 💜”—My Journey Back Home.

“I want to be me again.” “That’s what I told myself as I wiped my face for the hundredth time. This may have been my third day in a row crying. When they tell you about relationships, they give all the signs you need to look out for physical abuse, but no one ever tells…

The Great Divide ➗

Hey guys! I hope all is well. I’ve had a whirlwind these past weeks, but I am still holding on. My daily affirmations gave me a quote that sparked a thought, and from there, I would like to talk about The Great Divide. “I refuse to stay in the same place emotionally or physically for…

Grace & Space 👩🏽‍🚀🔭

Hey Gardeners! I pray everyone is well and enjoying life. I’ve been busy working, learning, and spending as much time with my Bible as possible. Lately, I’ve been reflecting on my younger self and what she needed, and the phrase “Grace and Space” came to me. So I wanted to share what I learned. 💕🌻💕🌻…

“Strong Back—Soft Front” 💜

HELLO! It’s been three months since my last post, and I’ve got to tell you the minute you think your healing is complete is when your next mission starts. Let’s dive in! “All too often, our so-called strength comes from fear, not love; instead of having a strong back, many of us have a defended…

Metamorphosis 🦋

• a change of the form or nature of a thing or person into a completely different one by natural or supernatural means.—Oxford Languages, 2022 🐛🐛🐛 Sometimes I feel overwhelmed and a tad bit off course—but that is the beauty of change. I realized that I do not have to be perfect—I have to be…

The Wrong Types of Friends ❌❌❌

An Ode of Forgiveness to my younger self. 💜 When I first decided to write this post, I asked myself, “Is this a diss track??” 😂 It’s NOT. However, it is time that I expressed what I’ve learned about different types of friends throughout the years. 💕🌻💕🌻 I’ve encountered several types, but the following is…

The Toxic Truth 🔦

Here, let me turn on this flashlight so we can chat. 30 is different. The people made it sound super sexy on the social sites! 😂 I was not expecting the shift that’s taking place right now. Everything that I thought I knew and thought I wanted has evolved. Now, I have to do the…

A Speaking Piece 🕊💬

“I would like to have your attention. There are some things we need to discuss if you all would get settled. I promise it won’t take long!” “Nobody wants to hear all of that.” Can I guess? Did someone silence you when you finally mustered up the courage to speak? Maybe, they gaslit you into…